how to help your guy last longer in bed
Make Your Lover Last Longer - 3 Options To Make Him Last Long In Bed
By Chess McDoogle
It's very frustrating to have a lover not be able to last long in bed. Basically you are not experiencing the kind of intimacy you should be. It's on the guy to be able to last long in bed, but sometimes you have to take matters in your own hands and provide him with the help he needs so that he can prevent premature ejaculation.
The most important thing is to understanding. This can be a very touchy subject and many guys are reluctant to have their lovers help them with their premature ejaculation problem.
Understand as well, that premature ejaculation is a very common problem. Most guys suffer from this at one point or another. So what your lover is going through is not uncommon. It's also uncommon for many guys to get help. If your boyfriend is willing to have you help him, then that should be seen as a great thing as he puts his ego aside and focuses on your pleasures and needs.
Employ the start and stop method. The good thing about the start and stop method is that you can do it together. The results will be much more effective as well. Basically you want to have sex, and as soon as he feels ejaculation coming on, stop completely. He'll need to pull out and relax for a moment so he doesn't ejaculate. Once he is simmered down, then resume sex. Continue doing this stop and start method for the next several minutes.
What this is doing is training his body to last. By pulling out and not ejaculating, he is essentially telling his body that quick ejaculation is not acceptable. By starting again, he is training his body to be able to experience near ejaculation, but then continue on for longer.
This takes some work, and effort, but the results will be much better than before. It also takes understanding on your part. It will be hard to separate pleasure from practice. But focus on practice, so that future pleasure will be better than ever.
The other option is to have him masturbate and employ the start and stop method the same way. This is often the option for guys who are too embarrassed to have start and stop practice sessions with you. And while it does work, the results will take longer. There is nothing like the real thing, and if you can get him to practice with you the sensations will be much more realistic and thus more effective.
The third option is to have him do both the start-stop with you, and then again on his own with masturbation. This is perhaps the most effective method, as he is getting a full on practice with his partner, and then he is getting a mini-practice on his own.
He can also do exercises. These are highly effective, and he can do them on his own, without your assistance. Have him visit this website, or send him the program yourself so he can get started - http://KegelTrain.com
Kegel training, combined with the start and stop method is perhaps the fastest way to have longer lasting sex and prevent premature ejaculation for good. Check out the routine at http://KegelTrain.com